Dating Detox Experience

stop the soul-destroying dating

This is a 10-week group coaching experience that will give you the tools you need to step into your power and finally feel worthy of love.

Only then will you shine bright enough for your BIG LOVE to find you.

Hey Beautiful,

I see you there, working hard at this dating game but getting nowhere fast. I know it’s frustrating when all you seem to attract are jerks and commitment-phobes who just waste your time. I know it makes you feel unworthy when you do find one who seems to have potential but he disappears on you.

Constantly checking Tinder is no way to live a fulfilled life. It is draining and with every swipe your heart sinks a little deeper into despair. Is anyone actually looking for love anyway or just the next quick shag?

You tell yourself every Saturday night that if you have to go on one more numbing, mindless, boring date that leads nowhere you are giving it all up; succumbing to a life of cats and loneliness.

Maybe you have already given up.

In your dark moments, you wonder what you’re doing wrong. Maybe your expectations are too high or maybe you don’t have what it takes to attract the right guy. Other women seem to have men falling at their feet so what is wrong with you?

Deep inside you know you are worth more than the crumbs of love you keep getting but you have no clue how to find this extraordinary love you crave so much.

Well, my dear, I know how you feel because I have gone through the exact same process. It’s heart-breaking.

Not so long ago, after a decade of dating my own jerks and commitment-phobes (110 of them to be exact) I decided ‘no more’! I was so exhausted with it that the idea of going on another date made me sick in the stomach. I knew I deserved more in love than I was attracting. I just didn’t know how to change it.

So I took a break. I focused on the relationship with myself. I did the inner work on self-love, feeling happier as a single and finding my own worth. I revaluated my dating and the relationship mistakes. I become friends with solitude which helped me dissolve my desperation. I created a life I loved living. I fell in love with my single status and I decided to never settle for anything less than I truly deserved and desired.

3 months after I had completed my dating detox I met the love of my life without making much effort. Today I am in a happy and healthy relationship with my BIG LOVE. I feel important, loved and supported daily. We now have our 2 beautiful kids which I consider a miracle given my track record in love.

In this group coaching experience, I will share with you the tools, wisdom and insights that you need to become the woman who is ready to attract the BIG LOVE she deserves without compromising herself!

These tools will help you show up differently in dating and attract the right guy but also build your amazing relationship and keep it happy once you have met him.

Are you ready to stop being played?
Are you ready to carve your own path to love?
Are you ready to step up?
Let me help you…

As a result of joining this programme you will:

  1. Feel happier and free of desperation which makes you 100 times more irresistible to the right kind of guys than all these needy women out there
  2. Be at peace with your relationship status and live your single life to the full so you don’t need to rely on a man to make you happy ever again
  3. Develop the most important relationship, the one with yourself, so you have a stronger sense of self and never lose yourself in a relationship again
  4. Stop settling for second best and give yourself permission to go for what you truly deserve and desire in love
  5. Feel secure within and complete without a man so you stop looking for a rescuer and avoid forming co-dependent relationships
  6. Start trusting yourself to make more aligned romantic choices in order to attract the most compatible relationship that lasts
  7. Stop wasting time on the wrong guys and dead-end relationships with emotionally unavailable men
  8. Raise your standards and aim higher in dating so you attract commitment-ready men who want a relationship with you

What Do You Get?

Private FB Group – the sisterhood of amazing women you can share your journey with

10 weeks of expert guidance and support from me in the FB group

10 audio lessons + exercises – released every Monday in the FB Group

10 weekly FB live sessions with further training and the opportunity to get all your questions answered 

• Journaling prompts to expand your awareness

A few fun tasks to raise your energy and push you out of your comfort zone


What Does The Programme Cover?

  1. Learn From Your Past – uncover and dissolve your unhealthy love patterns that make you attract the same jerks and keep you stuck in a cycle of repeating the same mistakes in love.
  2. Thrive As A Single – as long as you want to escape being single you will be ending up in the same toxic relationships, compromising in love and lowering your standards.
  3. Create An Awesome Relationship with Yourself – your romantic relationship is the extension of the relationship you have with yourself and can be only as good and happy as the connection you have with yourself.
  4. Take Responsibility For Your Happiness – there is nothing more attractive than a woman who lives on purpose, has fire in her belly and loves her life (and herself!) fiercely.
  5. Recognise Your Value – when you know what your value is and what you bring to the relationship, you can show up more confidently and expect the same in return from the guys you are dating.
  6. Become The Woman He Dreams About – it’s one thing to know what kind of relationship you want to attract and a completely different thing to become the person you need to be to attract it.
  7. Love Yourself – this is an absolute game-changer if you want to start aiming higher in the dating game and make meeting your dream guy possible.
  8. Set Powerful Boundaries – so you can eliminate the flakes, time wasters and men who disappear on you. Start attracting high-quality guys who are ready to spoil you, love you and respect you for who you are.
  9. Tap Into Your Worthiness – if you don’t feel worthy of love, you will always be settling in love. This, like nothing else, will keep you away from finding the right kind of love.
  10. Unleash the High-Quality Woman Within – unleashing the high-quality woman is simply about stepping into the best version of yourself and having the right mindset. Once you have let her out and shine your light, you will be magnetic to high-quality guys.

Just Imagine…

  • You attract the right guys without trying so hard. You become a magnet for high-quality guys who are serious about dating and want a strong, intelligent woman who stands by her values.
  • You feel attractive, powerful and you ooze confidence, man or no man. You accept yourself, you know your value and you never, EVER, compromise yourself or your desires for a man.
  • You feel worthy of love, you know what you want and NOW you have the courage to choose the guys who were previously out of your league.
  • Your energy is attractive and on point. Men can’t resist it and you are finally being pursued. You don’t need to desperately chase after men and lose your dignity to find a date anymore.
  • You are a badass at recognizing the flakes, commitment-phobes and the mama’s boys right away and you stop wasting your time on them. No more second or first chances either.
  • You have a newfound respect for yourself and your time. You no longer go on all the dates with all the guys – you pick and choose who you want to see, when & where. The days of the dating doormat are OVER.
  • You love and value yourself so much that you won’t allow another asshole to treat you like an option or play games with you.
  • You have powerful boundaries and you know your non-negotiables – and you stick to them. You protect your heart, make sure your needs are met and won’t let men get away with murder any more.
  • You are ready to attract the right kind of guy who is ready to commit and love you just the way you are and you won’t accept anything less than that because you know you deserve an awesome kind of love!

The time has come to make a big decision; are you ready to invest in your BIG LOVE?

We Start Monday 25th November!



AUDIO 1 – Release The Shame And Stigma Of Being Single – break free of  societal conditioning and start enjoying your single status more!

AUDIO 2 – Recognise The Red Flags – learn how to read the common warning signs in dating so you avoid investing yourself too quickly and protect yourself from getting hurt again!

AUDIO 2 – 7 Steps To Avoid Emotionally Unavailable Men – learn how to avoid men who are not ready to commit so you stop wasting your time and getting frustrated with dating

What My Clients Say!

  • It’s so sad that this program is ending. This has been an amazing journey. Before I decided to join the programme, my biggest question was: what new can she tell me?? I can definitely confirm that this course was 100% worth it and my questions were answered in many ways. At the beginning of the course I didn’t even believe that I could feel comfortable about being single but things have changed and I definitely feel more comfortable about being single now! This course is finishing but my single woman’s journey has just begun. I know that I have to work on my self-worth as when I feel worthy I know I’m not going to have a problem with communicating my strong boundaries and my needs. I won’t let any guy put me down or make me feel not worthy of his love again. From now on, I am the one who makes the rules in my life. New high-quality woman has just been born and my work on myself won’t stop here.  This course definitely made a massive impact not just on my love life but my life in general and on the relationship with myself. After these few weeks, I already feel stronger and more confident and I know that I can set up strong boundaries to stop allowing people to hurt me. Once I had a vision of my future self. I had an amazing guy next to me but I felt so great about myself that I didn’t worry about him leaving me but if he did I wouldn’t cry about it as I felt whole. I had myself and I didn’t need anyone to make me happy. For the first tie, I feel that I can become that person from the future. Thank you Aska very much for all the hard work.


    Aska, I just wanted to let you know that I’ve been living with my man since March and we’re expecting our first child around New Year’s Eve. Your dating detox course was definitely a helpful and healing part of my journey! It helped me understand the dating game and my own needs. Dating was so frustrating for me. So I started the detox, read books on different dating patterns and I did your course. I learned to put myself and especially the love for myself first. To be not afraid to say what I want and don’t want in a relationship. Thank you so much for that.


    Really glad I signed up for the course. It’s been an eye opener and really insightful. Since doing the Dating Detox I’ve enquired about several different dancing classes I’m joining in the new year. A world cinema film club I’ll join. I’ve joined a dating website which is stepping out of my comfort zone. I asked a bloke at work to go to the pub for lunch with me and we did. I’m making my flat sexier for when I meet a guy. You are great!


    Deep appreciation to you Aska. I loved every bit of the program and found everything so useful – the audios, the exercises, the journaling questions, the live calls. Just by being in this group, I didn’t feel so alone on this journey of embracing being single. I had a major breakthrough. I realised that I actually tie my self-worth to my boyfriends making me feel important. My worthiness and my value were dependent on external sources. I depended on external sources (i.e. in form of boyfriends) to validate my worthiness. It’s so liberating and freeing to finally see this in this angle! Thank you so much, Aska for the program! Lots of love.


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Frequently Asked Questions

Who Is The Experience For?

  • The women who are tired of dating and need a little break from it to focus on themselves and revaluate their mistakes to learn from them.
  • The women who know they deserve much more in love and will do whatever it takes to get it.
  • The women who are ready to do the inner work which is necessary to create different results in their love life.
  • The women who are done with dating average guys and want to experience more in love.
  • The women who are committed to their personal-development and are ready to invest in themselves.

Who Is It Not For?

  • The women who don’t feel like doing the inner work.
  • The women who are after a few dating tips to turn their love life around quick.
  • The women who always have lots of excuses.
  •  The women waiting for a miracle.
  • The women who blame men or the dating game itself.
  • The women who are okay with experiencing more pain in dating and their relationships.

What This Experience Is Not?

This is not a ‘find your soulmate in 30 days’ type of course. I don’t believe you can put a timeline to finding love. I believe you can speed up the process by doing the inner work and get ready for love while you are single. No coach can control the process of finding love so I don’t promise impossible.

What I can promise you is that you will feel more in control of your dating and in charge of your love life. In your next relationship, you will feel more loved, fulfilled and happier than in past relationships because thanks to this course you will choose your next partner more carefully without desperation leading you into the arms of the wrong guy.

How Is This Programme Different From The Other Dating Courses?

This is not a dating course, so we won’t be focusing entirely on dating advice. I don’t believe the dating tips can create shift in your love life on their own. That’s why during this programme we are going deeper to remove the inner obstacles to love. Packed with a decade of my own experience, this intensive programme is about YOU. It will help you strengthen your sense of self, identify the gaps to take responsibility for and change the way you feel about yourself.

Even though the dating won’t be our focus you will change your approach to it and you will become more intentional and successful at it! I will happily share my dating knowledge with you and answer your questions at any point of the programme.

Unlike other programs you will need to do some serious inner work and dig deep but when you complete it you will know it was worthwhile because you’ll be a new woman!

How Much Time Will I Need To Do The Work?

You will need approximately 60-90 minutes per week to listen to the audio and do the exercise. If you don’t have that much time during the week you can easily catch up on the work on the weekend.

It’s A Big Investment For Me. Is It Really Worth The Price?

How much money will you be willing to spend on something which can potentially help you find the love of your life? A man you can settle with and create a family with? In my opinion, it’s worth much more than what I charge. There is also a payment plan available.

What Will The Results Be?

• You will never again invest yourself in a relationship that doesn’t meet your needs

• You will stop making the same mistakes in dating and love

• You will be able to recognise the red flags and avoid unnecessary heartache

• You will keep yourself grounded while dating and never lose yourself in a relationship again

• You will discover your unhealthy patterns which sabotage your love life and replace them

• You will create the most amazing relationship with a guy you can deeply connect to

We Start Monday 25th November!



AUDIO 1 – Release The Shame And Stigma Of Being Single – break free of  societal conditioning and start enjoying your single status more!

AUDIO 2 – Recognise The Red Flags – learn how to read the common warning signs in dating so you avoid investing yourself too quickly and protect yourself from getting hurt again!

AUDIO 3 – 7 Steps To Avoid Emotionally Unavailable Men – learn how to avoid men who are not ready to commit so you stop wasting your time and getting frustrated and disappointed with dating!

Let me show you how to stop the soul-destroying endless dating game and get ready for BIG LOVE!

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