How happy are you with your life? Not really happy. I need a relationship to feel fully happy. Mostly OK, but I feel that something is missing. I take responsibility for my happiness and make sure my life is exciting even when I am single. You are dating a guy and you notice he pulls away and then comes back. What do you do? You put up with it as this is better than being single. You are hopeful he will change. You know something is not right and you are waiting for the right moment to confront the guy. You end it because you know you deserve better. There are plenty of other fish in the sea! How do you feel about being single? I hate it. I want to be in a relationship NOW! I can see benefits in being single but I still miss having a significant other. I use my time being single to work on myself, have fun and create the best possible life before I meet the right guy. You meet a guy, you go on a few nice dates and he disappears. How do you react? You completely freak out and you send him 10 texts and leave him 5 voice mail messages to find out why. You feel upset and it seriously affects your self-esteem for many weeks. You feel disappointed but you understand he must have had a reason and there is no point in contacting him since he isn’t acting like someone you would want to date. What do you feel like when you stand naked in front of the mirror? You won’t even be able to stand naked in front of the mirror!!! Uncomfortable and you would feel better if you didn’t have to look at yourself. You are proud of your body and you love every bit of it no matter how flawed it is. At the end of the day if you don’t love it, why would anyone else love it? You have an exciting date set up and the guy sends you a text last minute that he can't make it. You get all mad! You send him a few angry texts and you spend the evening talking to your friend about what he has done. These things happen, it isn’t a big deal but you will think twice if you want to see him again. You use this extra time to do something you really love doing and when he wants to meet again you only meet him for a quick coffee. He hasn’t earned more of your time yet! What is your view on making the first move in a dating game? Never! I am old school and I believe this is the man's job. I would be paralysed if I had to approach a man first. Maybe this is where I go wrong! I should change my approach and be more proactive. Yes! A woman needs to give clear signals to encourage a man so he knows she is interested in him. I do it all the time. You had a nice date with a great guy and he doesn’t call for a few days. What do you do? You call him and ask him why he hasn’t called, and let him know that him not calling has hurt your feelings. You wait for him to call you and then act distant and try to pretend that nothing is up. You call him and invite him to do something fun and exciting that he wouldn’t expect. If he says no, at least you know he is not that into you. If it comes to your dream relationship and love: You have given up and have no faith that your dream guy exists on this planet. You will take the first average guy who comes your way. You are disillusioned and you feel bitter about love but there is a little glimmer of hope for you You have a clear vision, you know what you want and you actively date to create opportunities to find the man of your dreams. When someone falls in love with you: You do your best to prove yourself worthy, because it may never happen again. You feel a bit undeserving and at the beginning you work hard to deserve his love but you relax with time. You are being your awesome self and you make sure you don’t hide your ugly bits. We all have them and he needs to get to know them as they are part of who you are.