Life after my Dating Detox
Once I had found my happiness and felt complete within myself, I felt ready to date again.
The quality of my dates improved as I became more selective and had stronger boundaries.
I wasn’t on a mission to find a husband or a boyfriend anymore. I was more relaxed. I had no agenda. I had more fun.
Rejections didn’t bother me anymore. I became more authentic as I stopped looking for approval. I had no expectations. I just wanted to have fun meeting men.
A few short months later, I met a charming, wise, thoughtful, intelligent and very loving English man: I fell in love with him and he with me.
Six months later, I was pregnant and now I am a happy mama to an adorable little munchkin. This is something I had given up on a long time ago. Knowing my luck in love, I never believed I would find a man to have a family with.
When I was happier with myself, I was ready to meet a happy and emotionally healthy man for the first time.
Now I am in a very happy and healthy relationship with a real man – not a boy.
I feel looked after, immensely loved and supported. Never before had I such an honest, authentic and deep connection with a man. I never knew I could be so loved but I know the depth of his love is a reflection of the love I have for myself.
We are very happy together but also happy as individuals: with who we are and with our lives.
We both feel complete within ourselves so nobody needs to rescue anybody. Life together is easy and relaxed.
I am accepted for who I am and I can be myself at all times.
When you do the inner work on yourself and resolve your past issues, you start attracting higher quality men.
After 110 online dates, seven years of singledom, and one dating detox, I realised that my search for love, was in fact a search for self. At last I had found myself.
My dating detox completely transformed my love life.
I realised that I had needed to go through all those experiences to prepare for my dream man.
Had I not done my inner work and resolved my insecurities, my low self-esteem and lack of self-worth, I would have never attracted my current partner.
There were times when I cried my eyes out, asking myself what was wrong with me and feeling like life was punishing me by putting me through so many love attempts and failures. I couldn’t understand why.
Now the whole journey makes sense, even the pain and emotional turmoil I had to go through to become who I am today.
There was also one additional bonus – I had found my purpose and I now work with single women who are tired of dating and help them find themselves before they find their man.
I feel blessed in so many ways.
This is PART 3 of my Love Story. You can start reading from PART 1 HERE.