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  • Life after my Dating Detox – Part 3

    Life after my Dating Detox Once I had found my happiness and felt complete within myself, I felt ready to date again. The quality of my dates improved as I became more selective and had stronger boundaries. I wasn’t on a mission to find a husband or a boyfriend anymore. I was more relaxed. I […]

  • Chasing My Fairy-tale – Part 1

    Chasing my Fairy-tale Since my teens, I had felt a big void inside of me. I felt lonely and incomplete. I thought this hole could only be filled by romantic love with a man who loved me. I deeply believed this fantasy would fulfil all my needs and make me feel complete as a person. […]

  • One thing which has transformed my love life

    One thing which has transformed my love life After years of dating, chasing relationships with the determination of a bull and trying too hard to find The One, I hit the wall. With 110 online dates behind me, dozens of dating sites and hundreds of interactions with potential online dates still hadn’t brought me my […]

  • 3 things I have learned from men about finding love

    3 things I have learned from men about finding love I used to be a hopeless serial dater. Not because I wanted to be one but because I was clueless about online dating. I didn’t have a strategy, a plan, a wise approach. It took me a while to develop the right attitude towards online […]

  • The only reliable source of love!

    The only reliable source of love! Love is the most powerful force in the Universe. Most people desire it as it makes our life richer, more fulfilled and more meaningful. We believe love makes us better people, love gives us strength, love makes us happy. That is why we crave it, feel drawn to it […]

  • How to spot a quality Man!

    How to spot a quality Man! Through my dating career I have met and chatted to many men. Some were decent, some were immature, some were amazing and others forgettable. When I was younger, I didn’t know what to expect from men. As my self-worth was very low, I too often accepted too little believing […]

  • No relationship is a waste of time!

    No relationship is a waste of time! Some of the relationships can be complex and painful. Some can probably hurt you more than make you happy. Sometimes you can go through a very difficult love affair which can leave you scarred for a long time. They might make you feel bitter and lose faith in […]

  • Finish your year with some planning!

    Finish your year with some planning! The end of the year is a powerful time. It is the time to reflect on your achievements, lessons, your growth as a person and the time to create a vision for the year to come and plan ahead. For many years I have always spent a little bit […]

  • The only thing you need to do to find the one!

    The only thing you need to do to attract the one! I meet many single women and talk to them as I am always curious what they struggle with and dream about. In those conversations I have discovered a disempowering pattern. Sadly, many women still believe happiness comes with the right guy. They passively wait […]