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  • Self-love is sweeter than chocolate!

    Self-love is sweeter than chocolate! Whether you are a happy single or a miserable singleton, Valentine’s Day will stir some emotions in you. It’s hard to avoid it as it is so heavily commercialised and in your face. Pink flowers, red hearts, yummy chocolates, fluffy teddy bears are all over the place. Just because everywhere […]

  • No relationship is a waste of time!

    No relationship is a waste of time! Some of the relationships can be complex and painful. Some can probably hurt you more than make you happy. Sometimes you can go through a very difficult love affair which can leave you scarred for a long time. They might make you feel bitter and lose faith in […]

  • How giving up on love transformed my love life!

    How giving up on love transformed my love life! I used to be a long-term miserable singleton who desperately wanted to be in a relationship. I was single for 7 years, the first 4 of those I spent daydreaming about relationships and focusing on finding my man. My thoughts revolved around what type of man […]

  • Your smile is more powerful than you think!

    Your smile is more powerful than you think! Smile and the world smiles with you, cry and you cry alone – Stanley Gordon West I don’t know how many times in my life I needed to hear the lines: “You have a beautiful smile” or “I love your smile” before I actually heard and understood […]

  • Finish your year with some planning!

    Finish your year with some planning! The end of the year is a powerful time. It is the time to reflect on your achievements, lessons, your growth as a person and the time to create a vision for the year to come and plan ahead. For many years I have always spent a little bit […]

  • Are you there for yourself?

    Are you there for yourself? It is interesting that when life gets hard and a bit bumpy, we so often turn away from ourselves and we don’t know how to be present for ourselves. Think for a moment what happens to you when you fail at something, when you don’t get something right, when your […]

  • How to get ready for LOVE – Part 2

    How to get ready for LOVE – Part 2 I absolutely believe that you start creating your dream relationship while you are single. This is the time to get ready for love and create your vision for your relationship. This is the time to become who you want to be in the next relationship. This […]

  • How to get ready for LOVE – Part 1

    How to get ready for LOVE – Part 1 Many years ago when I was young and immature emotionally I believed romance and love was enough to create a lasting and loving relationship. How wrong was I! These days I don’t believe romance and love was the main ingredient of happy relationships. It takes much […]