Who am I

Hey Beautiful, I am Aska and I am the Dating Detox Specialist.

I am on a mission to help successful single women who have stopped believing in true love get their faith back, aim higher in their dating game and find an amazing man like I did. Yes, that is right! I don’t want anyone to give up on love. Love is the essence of life! So I simply can’t look the other way when a woman tells me she has lost hope or doesn’t believe she can find her Mr. Right.

A few years ago, I was that woman – hopeless and miserable. After dating for years – meeting endless reams of average guys, crawling through average relationships, getting hurt, picking myself up, dusting myself off and starting all over again – I got to the point where I had no desire or energy left for another relationship. Angry and cynical, I promised myself: ‘No more relationships! I am not cut for this shit and I can’t get it right.’

I decided to go on the Dating Detox in order to re-evaluate my approach to relationships and get clear on what I really wanted from men.

This dating detox turned from a few weeks into a few years (only because I loved it so much!), and it was the most transformational period of my life. I created space to focus on the most important relationship of all: the one with myself. I fully embraced being a happy single woman and life became easier. I learned to appreciate my blessings. I worked on my self-esteem and self-love. I took a good, long look at everything that no longer served me and shook off unhealthy beliefs around relationships, men and love.

So when I emerged from my Dating Detox, I had totally changed my approach to dating and romance. I’d become much pickier. The quality of my dates improved and I started to have more fun. But most of all I stopped believing I needed a man to be happy. This was the most liberating outcome.

From a girl with non-existent self-esteem and no idea what self-love meant, I have come a long way. I’m now a self-reliant, happy, confident woman. All the work I have done on myself has enabled me to attract an amazing man into my life. I have even become a mama to a little boy, something I had given up on a long time ago as knowing my ‘luck’ in love I didn’t believe I would ever find a man I could have kids with.

I am now in the most incredible relationship in which – surprise, surprise – I show up in a completely new way. And I found him on Plenty of Fish, so miracles do happen! And one can happen in your life too!

Now I truly believe in BIG love, incredible relationships and quality men. It takes patience and a little bit of inner work, but it is all absolutely worth it and possible.

I am absolutely passionate about empowering single women to stop making the same mistakes in love over and over again, make better romantic choices and saving them from more heartache. 

My biggest wish is to make you believe in love again and find it quick. Most of all I want you to reconnect with your true self and find your power back before you attract an amazing guy into your life who you can have a total blast with.

If you want to read a longer version of my Love Story you can check my blog HERE.